Robert Jeffress shares three strategies for dealing with non-Christian family members during Christmas
Christmas is the season for merriment, inspired by the celebration of the life of Jesus. But what should one do if some family members are non-believers? Robert Jeffress, a senior pastor of the megachurch First Baptist Church in Dallas, Texas, shares that the Bible recommends three ways in which Christians can deal with such a situation without spoiling the fun for anyone.
In an article posted on the First Dallas Church's website, the pastor first recommends praying for the non-believers, explaining that what seems to be a mundane task is "the most powerful action you can take on behalf of your family." Jeffress refers to John 6:44 in saying that "no one can come to the Father unless he is drawn.
Another way to behave toward those who do not share the Christian faith during the holidays is to find opportunities to share. Jeffress cites the Great Commission in Matthew 28, which called for men to "make disciples of all nations."
According to the pastor, some people shy away from sharing the Word of God with a non-Christian family member, afraid that doing such could damage the relationship or mood. He reminds, though, that sharing the Gospel is the most loving gesture that one can do for his/her family.
Lastly, Jeffress recommends being the embodiment of the difference that Christian faith can do in one's life. "When the Christmas story falls flat, when the Romans road is not well received, when John 3:16 doesn't feel true to those who aren't sure God exists or that He loves them, your story of life change is the most influential picture of the gospel your family may see and want to respond to," he writes.
Jeffress is a best-selling author of Christian books. He also hosts the Pathway to Victory national radio and TV broadcasts.